#it's NONE of your business

[error501blog]

Question for the Ninjago fandom?

Are there any other Asian VA's for Ninjago than Vincent Tong? I love Mr. Tong, but I'm just curious.

Even if they're not East Asian in particularf. Hell! Even if they're half Asian or part Asian. Is there one other person?

Follow up, are there any Asians in the writing room of the show?

[luxanderreal]

Is this? Correct? Should I be? Posting here? So many social medias to juggle nowadays

[anavatazes]

NOT what I expected, BUT damn if I am not PROUD of that man! That was an excellent take down!!!

[howtonerdoutovereverything]

Song of the Day #6: Kiwi by Harry Styles

[angstigone]

THEY DIDN'T JUST PUBLISH A VIDEO OF EWAN MITCHELL ON THE EPIRE STATE BUILDING WITH 'LONG LIVE'

[muusudgoi]

more to the point, perfect example of snitches get stitches.

I think that 2023 is a good time for many of us, and allies in particular, to practice again the dying art of minding our own fucking business when it comes to the identities and lives of other people.

You see someone from one of your classes in a public place with a different gender presentation/expression than they typically have? Mind your own business.

You discover that one of your coworkers is in a same gender relationship, but they aren't out at work? Not your place to share that information in the workplace.

You notice that your neighbor in a red state takes a road trip across state lines with their transgender child every 3-6 months? No you fucking didn't.

You overhear students in your classroom using a different name and different pronouns for one student than you are used to using? If you live in a state hostile to trans rights, pretend that you don't know anything about this and report nothing.

You suspect that an acquaintance of yours might be gay, but they deny it when asked directly? Leave them the fuck alone.

One of your friends refuses to publicly label their sexuality? Good for them, you aren't entitled to that information anyway.

Your sibling comes out to you as questioning, but isn't comfortable sharing that with your parents yet? Keep your fucking mouth shut.

Don't out people; coming out is a personal choice not a moral obligation. Don't demand personal information about other people's sexuality or sex lives. You aren't entitled to information about anyone's gender identity, assigned gender at birth, or transition.

Bring back privacy, allow people to have control over the information that is shared about them publicly; it might save their job, their housing, their parental rights and their child's safety, or even save lives.

[funcoolchickie]

[gattaxa]

YELENA BELOVA in THUNDERBOLTS* (2025) dir. Jake Schreier

When all you have left to hold on to is a green tactical vest, a tub of hair gel, and a stolen guinea pig.

Bonus:

[wren-kitchens]

im annoyed and a little pedantic so can i just say as a blanket statement

queerbaiting is when the promotion for a FICTIONAL STORY intentionally hints towards two characters having a romantic relationship, without any intention to follow through in the show, in order to get queer people watching without discouraging the homophobic enjoyers of the show

queerbaiting is NOT:

a celebrity who you think is queer because theyre gnc or they have a 'vibe'. that is a real person and they cannot queerbait

two friends of the same gender pretending to flirt with each other for fun. those are real people and they cannot queerbait

a show with two characters of the same gender who are canonically friends that YOU PERSONALLY think would be better in a relationship. that's not bating, that's shipping, and subject to opinion

there are more but those are the main examples of people misunderstanding what queerbaiting is and being mad at something that isn't actually a problem

[agnes-come-back-challenge]

I love that everyone in TMA is just. Unremarkable. Jon isnt a heroic character; he's self-loathing and depressed and he exhibits the same self-pity as I do when I'm self-loathing and depressed. He doesn't stand out for his strength of will or quick-thinking or virtue. He's a good person but he stops trying to stay human when it gets uncomfortable. He's everything that a regular person is when theyre trapped in a horrible situation and it's ugly and insufferable and Real.

[jack-o-phantom]

he's thinkin

Feeding a certain portion of my followers

Alright, im out

[andromeda--system]

Finally realized and came out as a plural system today. Let's look at what the Tumblr community has to offer about plurality support as a complex trauma survivor.

oh.

oh no.

oh fuck.

[circeswhore]

You and your girlfriend are stolen by the fey and you’re turned into a deergirl and your girlfriend is turned into a houndgirl (like a doggirl but with a higher prey drive) and your girlfriend is magically compelled to hunt you howling and baying for the Wild Hunt. Is that anything

[my-neuroglia]

I’m a grown adult hardcore lady-type and the broad and somehow-public reactions to me talking about having children are wild.  My maybe or maybe-not having kids is always a public conversation.  If the idea of kids comes up, I get asked what my plans are. 

My plans are nobody’s business. If I say that, I get told that the clock is ticking. If I say I want kids, people say “Seriously?  With the world on fire?  That seems really selfish, don’t you think?” If I say I don’t want kids I’m called, for example a “spinster” or “a cat lady” or told I’m going to “die old and alone with no one to care for me.”  (The dude who said I’d be a spinster did not appreciate the 5 minute crash course I gave him on this historical difference between spinsters and weavers and the economical reality of unmarried medieval women.  His loss.)

No one says “It sounds like you made the right decision for your life and I’m glad - you sound pleased and content with your choice”.  No one says “I’m glad you know what you want.”  No one says “You are going to have an awesome life” No one says “Cool” and moves onto a different topic. Maybe, if you aren’t involved in the pregnancy, we should set the societal norm that if you can’t say anything nice, you STFU.  Maybe we should act like everyone knows best about their own life and make sure they have the resources and access to strive for the life they want.

one again BAFFLED by people telling me I can't write about trans men being happy to get pregnant. i am a trans man with 3 bio kids and i was never once dysphoric while i was pregnant. in fact my big family wanting preg kink ass was having a GREAT time lmaoo

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[steveharirngton]

the boyfriend i can never have ♡

[greelin]

making your own personal preference everyone else’s problem is so sickening.. “i don’t like body hair on other people” okay. and how is that an issue for The Whole Entire World to care about and bend itself around to please you specifically. when hair grows on the body. other people do not live for your consumption. going as far as calling it “gross” especially in regards to women…. have you considered eating glass, maybe